I had a vivid dream last night that my family and I were looking for a new house to live in, and that we’d found one: a beautiful, newish, non-traditional log multi-building property with acreage in the hills near Mt. Horeb. I even dreamed the name of the builder (who built the house and lived there for a time with his family): Mike Dolan. (I checked online when I woke up, and there doesn’t appear to be a builder by that name in Mt. Horeb…although there is a realtor by that name in Wisconsin.)
And when I woke up from that vivid, exciting dream, I realized why it was so appealing: Starting things is exciting. Continuing things through to their completion is not exciting. That goes for love affairs, careers, marriages, home ownership, life…. The beginning is always fun and thrilling. The rest is hopefully not drudgery, but it doesn’t give you that rush that the start does.
And when you’re at a certain age and phase of life, there are fewer and fewer starts and more and more of the continuing part of things, so life is less exciting. It may be more satisfying, but sometimes one wants some excitement.
I think it’s not necessary that there be no starts later in life, and perhaps intentionally starting something new is one way of keeping some of the excitement in life. Although when your plate is full the opportunities to start new things don’t just fall in your lap like they used to.
I’m a great starter, but a poor finisher. All of the above is why.


